¿BUSCAS PAREJA? ¡LEE ESTO Y LO CONSEGUIRÁS! [AVANZADO]

¡HOLA, HOLA! 🤾🏾

Seguro que te han dicho:
"si no buscas pareja, la encontrarás"

Seguro que también te han dicho:
"el que busca, encuentra"

Pero...¿Qué encuentra? ¿Vas a tener que esperar?

¡¡NOOOO!!!


Aquí yo te invito a que no busques lo que te falta. Porque no te falta nada. Eres una persona completa. Entera. Si eres una persona desesperada por encontrar pareja sean cuáles sean sus cualidades, entonces encontrarás a una persona que también esté desesperada por empezar una relación, aunque no con la pareja adecuada.

De la misma manera que cuando estás pensando en comprarte un móvil, empiezas a ver ese móvil por otras partes. Claro, le has puesto el "piloto automático" a tu cerebro: busca ese móvil, busca, busca. El resto de móviles pasan desapercibidos. No es que no estén, es que no los estás "viendo".

¿No se juntan los raperos con los raperos y los tóxicos con los tóxicos? ¡Claro!

Si sientes que te falta amor, encontrarás sólo a personas que les falte amor.
Empezaréis una relación carente de amor y acabará siendo conflictiva y tóxica, porque no os unieron vuestras cualidades, sino vuestras carencias.

¿CÓMO CONSEGUIR A MI PAREJA IDEAL?


Sencillo. Escribe tooooodo lo que buscas en esa persona:
Quiero que sea cariñosa, amable, que lea, que haga ejercicio, que coma sano, que en su tiempo libre haga...

Y en vez de buscarla,

conviértete en esa persona.


No busques esas cualidades en otra persona, tenlas tú. Todo ese amor enorme que buscas, dátelo tú misma/o. No necesitas a nadie, si te tienes a ti.

Y si en el camino, sin ir con el "piloto automático" que te comentaba antes, encuentras a una persona que sepa ver todo lo bueno que tú tienes, que te aprecie por ello y que no quiera cambiarte, entonces, compartirás una parte de tu vida con él/ella. Pero nunca dejarás de amarte para darle amor a otra persona. De igual manera que cuando aprendes inglés u otro idioma puedes hablar a varias personas, también puedes dar amor a varias personas, a ti la primera.

Recuerda que la otra persona también estará buscando a una persona con cualidades similares, porque cuando alcanzas la cima del amor propio, ya no quieres volver a bajar al primer escalón, quieres mantenerte arriba.

En el camino empezarás a enamorarte de ti mismo y ya no necesitarás a otra persona. Y ahí, te encontrarás a ti mismo y a quien será tu pareja mientras aprendáis el uno del otro.

Porque las cosas duran lo que duran, ni más, ni menos. Se lucha cuando ambos quieren y se deja fluir para dar espacio al amor, propio o en pareja, pero amor sano :)
2020年3月11日
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Mi profesora Cris Becé

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(*** ENGLISH, ITALIANO, FRANÇAIS, SIGN LANGUAGE LSE***) -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. ¡Hola! ¿Qué tal? This is Cris, your future Spanish teacher ;) Why do I know? Keep reading ;) -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. TEACHING: I have been teaching face-to-face and online Spanish, Italian, Sign language and English since 2014. (Ages 5 to 63) And I am still in touch with all my students (or their mums haha) I can speak 5 languages, so I know how you feel and the challenges you face. Have you ever asked yourself what a foreign accent is? It is a sign of bravery [A. Chua] So, CONGRATS. Not everyone wants to learn (different words and) other ways to think about things! You are curious!!! Big changes came from curious people. Marie Curie never liked simple answers ;) Congratulation again! I have 3 different diplomas of Spanish teacher and also a degree in Preschool Education (I love kids, I’m so good at it, but honestly, I prefer to teach Spanish to adults). However my career helped me a lot to understand how brains work when children or adults learn a new language. Yeap, when we learn, we usually make the same mistakes as children do. "Se ha rompido" vs. "se ha roto" -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. METHOD: Learning Spanish is not complicated, you just need a teacher who uses my magic formula. Because I can do MiRaCleS MiRaCleS=M+RC+S M= My method is based in your MOTIVATIONS (that's why all my classes are different, because depend on each student and which their passions are). Are you into tennis? Ok, let's learn the past simple with a text and a video of Garbiñe Muguruza or Rafa Nadal. RC= I like to focus on natural and REAL CONVERSATIONS you will use when you speak to ANY native. I saw many students who had pretty good level and they couldn’t keep friendships because they knew the grammar rules but they never learnt cultural rules. Once I heard a British guy asking: “Disculpe, ¿podría obtener una cerveza?” (“Excuse me, could I have a beer, please?”) Grammar, verbs, voc… excellent. Context and the way he asked? Awefull! The waitress looked at him like: man, what’s wrong with you, I’m not your boss. And why? Because of Spanish! we can say “Ponme una cerve(za)” “Give me a be(er)”. Sometimes we don’t say even thank you, because it can be included in your voice tone or when you make the word shorter: cerve instead of cerveza. And how are you going to learn that with me? Because... 3)S=You are going to SPEAK all the time in Spanish, I don’t speak almost anything in other languages. Even in the first lesson. You’ll see, it’s not necessary. I’ve lot of experience ;) Of course, I’m going to ask you for some writing or some grammar exercises, but it is not going to steal more than 20% of our lesson. Why do you speak, why do you talk? [think about it for a second, why… WHY?] Usually because you want to say what you think -your opinion- or what you feel -emotions-. Grammar it is not important, but communicate is. Express it in the right way and try to avoid misunderstandings. That’s a language. And when you learn it? When you use it! So let’s speak! -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. WHAT ABOUT CRIS? When I am not teaching, I have maaaany interests. I read (oh gosh, a looot). I love history, philosophy, art, theater, music, I write. I run and do yoga. I waste my time with friends… And of course: I travel. I travel A LOT. I lived in 6 different countries so far! And I learnt a lot of things. Especially from my students :D I hope we can teach each other lots of things IN SPANISH -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. A language is other way to understand the world… Watch the same things with other eye’s… You will be at home anywhere! A different language is a different vision of life and Spanish is spoken in so many countries… Why Spanish arrive never on time? do you want to discover how we think? Do you want to possess a second LET’S START YOUR FIRST DAY OF THE NEW WORLD Your previous teacher never taught you in this way. Believe me ;)
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使用できる言語:
スペイン語
ネイティブ
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イタリア語
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,
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フランス語
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ポルトガル語
(*** ENGLISH, ITALIANO, FRANÇAIS, SIGN LANGUAGE LSE***) -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. ¡Hola! ¿Qué tal? This is Cris, your future Spanish teacher ;) Why do I know? Keep reading ;) -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. TEACHING: I have been teaching face-to-face and online Spanish, Italian, Sign language and English since 2014. (Ages 5 to 63) And I am still in touch with all my students (or their mums haha) I can speak 5 languages, so I know how you feel and the challenges you face. Have you ever asked yourself what a foreign accent is? It is a sign of bravery [A. Chua] So, CONGRATS. Not everyone wants to learn (different words and) other ways to think about things! You are curious!!! Big changes came from curious people. Marie Curie never liked simple answers ;) Congratulation again! I have 3 different diplomas of Spanish teacher and also a degree in Preschool Education (I love kids, I’m so good at it, but honestly, I prefer to teach Spanish to adults). However my career helped me a lot to understand how brains work when children or adults learn a new language. Yeap, when we learn, we usually make the same mistakes as children do. "Se ha rompido" vs. "se ha roto" -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. METHOD: Learning Spanish is not complicated, you just need a teacher who uses my magic formula. Because I can do MiRaCleS MiRaCleS=M+RC+S M= My method is based in your MOTIVATIONS (that's why all my classes are different, because depend on each student and which their passions are). Are you into tennis? Ok, let's learn the past simple with a text and a video of Garbiñe Muguruza or Rafa Nadal. RC= I like to focus on natural and REAL CONVERSATIONS you will use when you speak to ANY native. I saw many students who had pretty good level and they couldn’t keep friendships because they knew the grammar rules but they never learnt cultural rules. Once I heard a British guy asking: “Disculpe, ¿podría obtener una cerveza?” (“Excuse me, could I have a beer, please?”) Grammar, verbs, voc… excellent. Context and the way he asked? Awefull! The waitress looked at him like: man, what’s wrong with you, I’m not your boss. And why? Because of Spanish! we can say “Ponme una cerve(za)” “Give me a be(er)”. Sometimes we don’t say even thank you, because it can be included in your voice tone or when you make the word shorter: cerve instead of cerveza. And how are you going to learn that with me? Because... 3)S=You are going to SPEAK all the time in Spanish, I don’t speak almost anything in other languages. Even in the first lesson. You’ll see, it’s not necessary. I’ve lot of experience ;) Of course, I’m going to ask you for some writing or some grammar exercises, but it is not going to steal more than 20% of our lesson. Why do you speak, why do you talk? [think about it for a second, why… WHY?] Usually because you want to say what you think -your opinion- or what you feel -emotions-. Grammar it is not important, but communicate is. Express it in the right way and try to avoid misunderstandings. That’s a language. And when you learn it? When you use it! So let’s speak! -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. WHAT ABOUT CRIS? When I am not teaching, I have maaaany interests. I read (oh gosh, a looot). I love history, philosophy, art, theater, music, I write. I run and do yoga. I waste my time with friends… And of course: I travel. I travel A LOT. I lived in 6 different countries so far! And I learnt a lot of things. Especially from my students :D I hope we can teach each other lots of things IN SPANISH -.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. A language is other way to understand the world… Watch the same things with other eye’s… You will be at home anywhere! A different language is a different vision of life and Spanish is spoken in so many countries… Why Spanish arrive never on time? do you want to discover how we think? Do you want to possess a second LET’S START YOUR FIRST DAY OF THE NEW WORLD Your previous teacher never taught you in this way. Believe me ;)
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